[FIX] spreadsheet_dashboard_hr_expense: remove wrong dependency

Module `spreadsheet_dashboard_hr_expense` depends on `hr_expense`
but uses the field `sale_order_id` which is only introduced with
`sale_expense`.
`spreadsheet_dashboard_hr_expense`'s dependencies are wrong.

To fix the issue:

1) we remove references to `sale_order_id` in `spreadsheet_dashboard_hr_expense`.
Note that it won't be applied to existing databases. The spreadsheet would
need to be updated "by hand" by deleting the cells, the filter and the pivot
object.

2) we introduce a new auto_install module with the correct dependencies to restore
the current dashboard.

On the master branch, `spreadsheet_dashboard_hr_expense`'s
dependencies is correctly changed to `sale_expense` by odoo/odoo#105148

closes #103899

closes odoo/odoo#104125

Signed-off-by: Rémi Rahir (rar) <rar@odoo.com>